Training my Husband

Nick had to work all weekend, and he probably will late tonight and more this week. Which is ok, I know he would rather be at home (at least I think I do). But I'm wondering if a telephone call is too much to ask. He did call finally at almost 5, after being there for 10 hours, to tell me that hopefully he would be finishing up soon. Saturday he didn't call at all. I know he's busy, but is it a bad sign that we've been married for only 5 weeks and he already forgets all about his wife when he gets to work? Not that it's just something that started happening after the wedding. Maybe I'm overreacting. But I feel that he might possibly be more dedicated to his job than to me, and I think that doesn't bode well for when we have kids. I understand how that can happen, because there's always more of a possibility of getting fired at work than at home. The people at work like him when he's doing something for them, but they probably wouldn't lose much sleep over firing him. Whereas he knows I'm not going to leave him or kick him out. But should I have to scare my husband into making me a priority? I hope not.

Anyway, this is a stupid discussion...not even a discussion, since it's just me typing. I'm sure I would love his job also if he would get a raise, which I know he deserves. Both of us...and neither one of us probably ever will. Exciting and motivating stuff there.